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McJulius N - 1 month ago

Let’s analyse this, First step: Who cheats? any man or any woman who engages sexual intercouse with the opposite sex, or only Married couples? If the former, than both are equal because they always do it in pairs. If the latter, than we will need enough information to make a sound conclusion which will be generally true accross all borders.

moses c - 1 month ago

Mr.Azuka, when it comes to cheating, what gender is notorious in Nigeria? what sex you think is the principal culprit in initiating marital unfaithfulness.

Mustapha B - 1 month ago

I think Moses has said it all, the question should be why men and women always cheat on one another? As we all knows that the act of cheating involves two genders ( a male and a female). If this is true, why blame one gender for been the perpetrator when its actually both?

Then, to answer the question ‘why men and women always cheat on one another, I want you to take a close look around you. Then, answer these questions: what do you see? What do you observe? What is wrong around you? Does things look the same as they used to be?

We are living in a transformed world where the evil of our hearts have enlarge than good. Now life is base on the theory’s ‘survival of the fittest’. Those who have structures that can withstand the adverse condition will survive, and both genders are doing just that. But, no one to blame, it was meant to be. However, the question is, do we want to continue in this path or we want to diverge for the better? Cheating norwadays, is a devastating epidemic that requires cure for both genders.

Who do I believe now, my wife or myself? It’s complicated.

Azuka E - 1 month ago

Thanks for understanding. it takes an integral academic temerity to exhibit such hermeneutic maturity as u’ve shown. kudos.

moses c - 1 month ago

When I examine your last paragraph, I figure out that the sense that I was trying to unveiled is parallel to what was mentioned by you in the last paragraph of your composition. I perceived that you are trying to be little more objective. nontheless, it is a good thing.

Azuka E - 1 month ago

Moses, that was good but lacked some substantial factuality. let us look at the scenario critically and averagely access the divergent constituent nuances. a man is married or has a relationship, goes out with a woman who is not hooked in any way. the simplest of analysis here points to the man as the cheater while the woman has not cheated any one. she just got into “a relationship” by her standards. unless u want us to believe that every Liberian woman has a relationship, either married or dating. this might involve some impossibility in real terms.

the scenario can also be reversed to make the woman the culprit while the man is free.

moses c - 1 month ago

Brothers and sister; I honestly do not understand what you guys are chatting about here or what point you are making!

Friends, don’t you think if a man cheats, he cheats with a female and if a female is caught in an act of infidelity that is also done in conjunction with her counter sex, a male figure? And if this is true, then what is the point of charging men of being the principal offenders of infidelity or accusing females of been the prime offender of marital unfaithfulness.

One thing that is not far from the reality is, when ten men are caught in the act of infidelity ten women will also be guilty of cheating; and not ten pig, dogs, or wood.

So, since a man can not cheat with out a woman and a woman can not demonstrate the act of marital unfaithfulness with out her counter part, the question should be, “Why should some men and women cheat?” I dont think there is a specific sex that is notorious of marital disloyalty than the other.

A sister unveiled that men has a tremendous desire for more than one wife; okay, this seem to be factual, now look at the ratios of the elements of marital unfaithfulness, two women are guilty of marital dishonesty verses the one man who had the affair with the two women. now looking at this example, what sex has the higher ratio of cheaters?

Emmanuel P - 2 months ago

Azuka E.!! You’re getting me all wrong. I have always been an advocate for women in general. Nevertheless, I don’t understand where you’re going with this but as I’ve pointed out, it is a prophetic warning that came hard as a constructive criticism, to save lives. Should we be irrational to hold on to views when the fact has already been established? God forbid. Your persistence argument in re-defining and re-crafting my previous topic to be harsh and irritating is indeed vague, “if not confrontational.” I don’t think you portrayed the whining type who insists my comment was bias against women in general. I thought I have clarified my utterances and was well understood.

Liberians are not hypocrites or psychopaths who do not have the potentials to contribute meaningfully to the rebranding and redeveloping of a new mentality. We must embrace ourselves in deliberating constructively and that’s why we are engaged in this forum.

With this in mind, we must also consider that we have the freedom of expressions that should not warrant negative criticism or finger pointing. Any misconception on the part of the naysayers and soothsayers is unfortunate and indeed regrettable. Let us exhibits all positive vibrations toward rebuilding unity and national development. We should not be carried away by the sensitivity of hot topic like my previous one, because it is the reason why we are here to dialogue and brainstorm ideals. Keep the loves flowing…

Azuka E - 2 months ago

Good post Emma. this is more matured and better articulated than the other post that harshly generalised. that’s the spirit! we keep learning and improving every day. that’s why we came in here – to rebrand the Liberian mentality.

@ Titus, we’re still waiting for ur definition of 21st century ladies.

Emmanuel P - 2 months ago

Women in general are not known to be cheaters. They’re fascinating elements without whom men are incomplete. Yes indeed, few women are gifted cheaters and dishonest in their dealing with men. Just as it is true with the saying, “one apple spoils the whole apple tree”, so it is true with those women who are known for their dishonesty because they are never satisfied with what they get. In retrospect to the genesis of the ills in our today relationship, it is unfortunate that all honest women should burden the blame for the so-called infectious disease that’s breaking up relationship. At the result, many men momentum for establishing family have been demolished. It is insane for one to love a woman so dearly only to find out later she is cheating on you.

While I do not believe it is true that all women are likely cheater; it is very pragmatic that the insincere few tarnish the reputations of them all. Not to be bias, the truth also imply to men as well. Those scornful women actions are reciprocal to their crazy-male counterpart. There are few men out there who do not understand what relationships or marriages are all about. To those men, it means conquering many women, only to abandon them after achieving their selfish desires. This circle of insanity have made it very impossible, if not difficult, to find the real women/men out there who are true to their partners. As the result, everyone else is afraid of getting into a relationship. They only do with the mindset that he/she must be the first one to cheat because he/she is to be cheated on anyway. The moral and values of our pride as a people is at risk and the future of our family circle is diminishing very fast.

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