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Topic: Why are Liberian girls so difficult to deal with? (0 votes)
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Mustapha B
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1 month ago
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Well, I don’t have that much to say but, this is what I think is wrong.
Let me take you back to normal time when things were happening very favorably. The time no one was afraid of no one. For those of you who had sound minds at that time, can bear me witness that neither women nor men were hard-headed as in today’s revolution.
However, things have changed, humanity has been expose to so many presures that’s causing both genders to behave irresponsibly. Because of this, one gender is scare that the other might mislead them and the other is been defensive. Frankly speaking, both genders are difficult to deal with norwadays but, no one to blame. We only need to learn how to embrace and change this situation for the betterment of the next geeration to come.
As Princess started by disagreeing to this topic, my only view to Princess is, this is not really a matter of disagreeing rather a matter of observation. I think whosoever came out with this topic must have gone through something that led him to pose this question or may have learned it from someone. Believe me, there are Liberian women out there saying Liberian men are difficult to deal with.
With the beauty of our land and the love of our heart we will all unit one day and smile like we have never smiled before.
Be well.
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Emmanuel P
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2 months ago
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Azuka E.
I don’t understand where you’re going with this but as I’ve pointed out, it is a prophetic warning that came hard as a constructive criticism, to save lives.
Should we be irrational to hold on to views when the fact has already been established? God forbid. Your persistence argument in re-defining and re-crafting my previous topic to be harsh and irritating is indeed vague, “if not confrontational.”
I don’t think you portrayed the whining type who insists my comment was bias against women in general. I thought I have clarified my utterances and was well understood.
Liberians are not hypocrites or psychopaths who do not have the potentials to contribute meaningfully to the rebranding and redeveloping of a new mentality. We must embrace ourselves in deliberating constructively and that’s why we are engaged in this forum.
With this in mind, we must also consider that we have the freedom of expressions that should not warrant negative criticism or finger pointing. Any misconception on the part of the naysayers and soothsayers is unfortunate and indeed regrettable. Let us exhibits all positive vibrations toward rebuilding unity and national development. We should not be carried away by the sensitivity of hot topic like my previous one, because it is the reason why we are here to dialogue and brainstorm ideals. Keep the loves flowing…
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Azuka E
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2 months ago
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Ur effort to clear the air is quite welcome but we have to sometimes verify our claims before making them public. u might have targeted a minute sector of the Liberian women but the damage such harsh and hasty generalizations could cause is grossly far reaching.
again, are we talking about prophecy here or mere advice? i think we should have to get that right in order to continue on the right track. all the same, i like ur gusto! bravo!
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Emmanuel P
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2 months ago
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Corrections on my article posted on the above topic that’s been very controversial so far.
I don’t think am harsh on Liberian women in general. I made it cleared that not all Liberian women are bias or discriminatory against us, Liberian men. My view expressed online is just my opinion and does not attack anyone personally; neither should decent Liberian women in general take it personal. I am a very kind, fair and lovely Liberian who is trying to point out the mistake in us as people, in this case some of our women.
My reference source were those proud, self ego, bias, hip hop; tattoo-Liberian women. Those who do not want to connect and felt too proud or better to link with their fellow countrymen. (Either men and or women)
Philosophically, one has to sound out forceful in a tone that meant to warn others of the ills in a society. Permit me to say that a prophetic warning does not come in a weak or smooth tone but very hard and forceful, to save lives.
I am very proud to be a Liberian and will always love you irrespective of my brotherly criticism, in this regard.
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Azuka E
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2 months ago
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i would think u are unnecessarily harsh, Emmanuel. ur choice of words as “educated and intelligent” should have been milder than it was. u might have a message u want to pass across but the manner of dissemination might be irritating that the important message fizzles with it into thin air.
this is actually the mentality we came in here to rebrand. we’re all equal: man or woman, white or black. u mustn’t stop Liberians from befriending foreigners and vice versa because we are all human beings and possess equal rights of free association. u can however advice but u mustn’t enforce the advice forcibly. the world has become so small – just the click of a mouse button and u’re where u were not.
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Azuka E
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2 months ago
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i think the two of u are saying the same thing. it is merely a passionate issue. once the passion comes, no one backs out or seems difficult to deal with. as men, we throw the first light waiting for the response and reciprocity. but the women should sometimes make coquettish signs so that we can call.
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Princess N
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2 months ago
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I disagree with ur post while because i think u are wrong about Liberian girls.We are not difficult to deal with.maybe u haven’t found that one woman who is really attracted to u yet.but my advise to u is this,keep trying and u might get ur wish.if u are not lucky with Liberian girls,just try some where else.u never know,u might find miss right.so please stop saying liberian girls are difficult because we are not.thank u very much.
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Emmanuel P
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2 months ago
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This forum is supposed to link Liberians (men and women) with each other. Since I got added, I’ve tried to establish contact with few of my opposite sex but almost, all of them have failed to show interest. The only exception is my male counterpart. Are they prejudice? Could this be a practical Liberian girl mentality of overlooking or prejudging their Liberian men? What do you think?
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